Standing in Solidarity: Honoring Trans Day of Remembrance

Today, we pause to observe Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR), a solemn day that calls us to reflect on the lives lost to anti-transgender violence. This day, founded in 1999 by transgender advocate Gwendolyn Ann Smith, began as a vigil to honor the memory of Rita Hester, a transgender woman whose life was tragically cut short. TDOR has since become a global movement, reminding us of the resilience of our transgender siblings and the ongoing fight for justice and liberation.

The trans experience is not a new phenomenon. Trans individuals have always been a part of the human story, crossing cultures, time periods, and geographies. They embody courage and authenticity, showing us what it truly means to live liberated — to stand true to oneself despite the weight of societal norms and expectations. In a world that often seeks to categorize and constrain, our trans siblings shine as powerful examples of human potential unbound by artificial limitations.

But their bravery is not without cost. Transgender individuals, particularly trans women of color, face disproportionate levels of violence and discrimination, creating a stark reminder of the systemic injustices that persist. This violence stems from the same systems of oppression that target all LGBTQ+ people, reminding us that the fight for trans rights is inherently linked to the broader fight for LGBTQ+ liberation. To truly create a just and inclusive world, we must center and uplift the voices of our trans siblings. Their liberation is our liberation.

On this Trans Day of Remembrance, we honor the lives of those who were taken from us too soon. We remember their light, their authenticity, and the courage it took to live fully as themselves in a world that so often punished their truth. These individuals were not just victims; they were trailblazers, warriors, and beloved members of their communities. Today, we say their names, we hold space for their stories, and we commit ourselves to building a society that does not merely tolerate trans individuals but celebrates them.

At Safe Schools, we envision a future where diversity is embraced, where the beautiful spectrum of humanity is celebrated, and where no one has to live in fear because of who they are. Let today be a moment not only of mourning but also of recommitment — to stand shoulder to shoulder with our trans siblings, to amplify their voices, to fight against injustice, and to protect the light of authenticity that they so boldly shine into the world.

As Gwendolyn Ann Smith reminds us, the right to simply exist is fundamental. To our trans siblings: We see you. We honor you. We stand with you.

May we never stop working toward a future where all people, regardless of gender identity or expression, can live freely and safely. Today, we remember. And tomorrow, we continue the fight.

Be Bold. Live Free. Stay Woke. Love All.

By: Rev. Harold Marrero
Chief Operating Officer


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